Forgive my cynicism. Don’t get me wrong, there is still interesting and funny content to be found on social media. My Instagram algorithm is all pickleball and drums and the occasional inappropriate joke. And occasionally there’s some good thought-provoking stuff too. I follow a guy named Joseph Fasano who shares his quotes and poems. Quoth Joseph:
“Never let the World defeat you in that most tragic of ways: by making you cynical and making you think your cynicism is wisdom.”
Am I in danger of meeting this tragic defeat? I’m not a cynic; I’m more typically an optimist. But I have become very much cynical when it comes to social media and AI.
Part of it comes from being in an industry that is obsessed with it. Influencer agents talking about their “Claude Code” and all of the things it can do for you. Many cite examples of how they turned their AI agent loose on their database and it magically generated a hot lead for a luxury home. I wonder how many unsubscribes that one lead cost? I wonder if they converted that lead? I wonder if they’re all full of shit?
I saw a video by an agent where he gloated about the AI avatar he’d created, and he confessed that all of the “hyperlocal” video content he had published in the last 12 months had been completely AI generated. All of the engagement in the comments was done by an AI agent as well. If it identifies a “lead” it sends AI generated messages to “engage” the client. And if that client makes it through the AI gatekeepers, the agent may just give them a call. Do people want this?
All of this is supposed to make us more money I guess. But when will people tire of talking to a computer? I know I already have. I don’t want to chat with a chatbot. I don’t want to watch an AI generated video or read an AI generated article. And almost EVERYTHING on the internet is fake now.
My “database” is YOU. If you’re reading this, you’re part of my database. You are a friend or client or colleague. You are a real person. I could definitely do a better job of keeping in touch but I just refuse to insult or abuse you with slop. People tell me they love reading my newsletter… because it’s real. It’s me. Business coaches are telling people like me to pump out ai-generated newsletters and blogs, in order to get indexed and increase engagement and generate leads. “Scaling your business” they call it. I call it an insult.
I saw a post on Instagram last week where a business coach was offering her “prompt pack” to make your ai generated content sound more human. Just comment “human” and she’ll send you a DM. The post is ai generated. The replies are ai generated. Her ai prompts are ai generated. Hell, she probably isn’t a real person, just an AI agent someone is using to build a database of suckers to sell shit to.
The comment section:
HUMAN
HUMAN
HUMAN
HUMAN
HUMAN
HUMAN
… And so on. Is this how business is done now? Do people really trust this?
AI content creation has been a boon to charlatans and frauds and con artists. I received a spam email recently from a particular charlatan in my industry (who I won’t name) inviting me to his AI online mastermind where he will reveal the secrets of how TOP AGENTS IN YOUR AREA are getting themselves recommended by chatbots. DON’T GET LEFT BEHIND The email was AI generated, the content of the “mastermind” will be ai generated. Replies to any inquiries will be AI generated. And this charlatan will just cash checks on his boat while his subscriber list and downline continue to expand. Maybe it seems worse to me because I’m in an industry where thousands of hungry self employed agents are always looking for ways to find more business, and who likely respond more reliably to come-ons and get rich quick schemes. A sucker licensed every minute, as PT Barnum might say.
By the way, please don’t ask your AI chatbot for agent recommendations. Or for recommendations of any professionals. It’s not going to recommend the best person, it’s going to recommend the most visible person, the most indexed person. Ask someone you trust. A real person who’s opinion you value. Ask me.
One more rant and then I’ll drop this topic for a few months. Do you use WhatsApp? Did you get this message?
Did it bother you as much as it bothered me? It’s bad enough that they’re farming our messages for data and training their AI. Now they want to write my messages for me? We will soon reach a point where we won’t be able to trust that we’re talking to the actual person or to AI. We’re probably already there.
If you’re texting with me, it’s really me. I promise. I refuse to outsource my thinking.
For my own little boycott, I will refuse to engage with fake content. At least when I can recognize it. I hope people join me. I believe people still value real human connection and authenticity. I do. At some point when it’s all fake I may just not engage at all. That wouldn’t be the worst thing. I’m almost there already.
Maybe I’ll learn that Joseph Fasano isn’t even a real person, but a AI agent programmed to harvest data from luddites like me. Wouldn’t that be ironic?
Maybe this newsletter is actually AI generated and I’ve just vibe coded a really sophisticated prompt to make it sound like me. For a copy of my prompt, reply "“AGENT”
just kidding.
Forgive my cynicism.
I’ll leave you with some optimism because at my core, I’m an optimist. I believe this won’t last. AI isn’t going away, and it has many useful applications, but I believe that, like me, people will quickly tire of AI generated content and become increasingly skeptical and cynical about what they see on a screen. The value of real live human experiences will increase. Real art and creative expression. Businesses where a human calls you back.
I believe it’s already happening.